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Click on the "Media" tab. Then click the link "Upload new Photo". You will then be able to choose a file from your computer. There is a 2MB limit. Once the right file is chosen, simply click submit.

How do I do an advanced search?

Go to the search tab in the upper right corner of this page. Click on it and it will take you to the search page. Click on the arrow for each of the options and then click find my match. That easy!

How do I change my password?

Go to your home page and click on the preferences button there will be a link there. 

How do I write a great profile?

This is a question I am asked regularly. The answer is :

Be yourself!

Unless yourself is morose and depressed and then save that until you get to know someone a little better. Be upbeat and positive. If ever there was a time to have an " attitude of gratitude" this is it! Think about the things you like about yourself and mention them. Are you a hard worker who takes pride in their accomplishments? Do you have beautiful healthy kids? Do you love to read? What kind of books? Are you an avid cyclist or tennis player? Proud of the wonderful tomatoes or roses you grew this year? Have family members that you love to spend time with? You want to get across the idea that you are a person who likes yourself. Which doesn't mean you should brag about how great you are but you CAN write about the wonderful things in your life because appreciating what we have always brings us more things to appreciate.

Ask for what you want.

If you are looking for someone who loves to go camping, or likes to go shopping - put it in there. If you have every intention of spending a year living in the Australian outback and want someone who wants to go with you - put it in there. Do you love when your partner cooks for you? Do you want someone to take a ballroom class with you or learn to scuba dive with? Do you want someone who shares your faith or is willing to volunteer at the local soup kitchen? Put it in there! Half of getting what we want in this world is identifying what it is. The other half is working toward getting it. By asking you are beginning the work.

Tell the truth about your height and body type.

I have been on lots of dates with men who said they were 5'9" who apparently meant they were going to be that tall when they grew up. I actually truly don't care how tall a man is but I do NOTICE when I meet him if he has fibbed. Starts things off wrong if I am expecting one thing and get another. I like men who are either athletic or have a few ( a few means less than 20) extra pounds on them. I am not deep enough to wiggle on that. Most people aren't and most people know it. (If you are - awesome! Teach a class on how to be deep and I will attend). There are plenty of people who are and love to date heavy set or skinnier people and being honest about who you are will help to avoid the hurt feelings that are likely to occur if that kind of surprise happens. Sorry if that sounds harsh but its real. Please be sure the picture you post is an accurate representation of what you look like now. If it is more than two years old or you were 10lbs different than your current weight have a new picture taken. This will save you from having your feelings hurt later.

Be honest about your marital status.

Really. If you are married at least respect your matches enough to admit that up front. Otherwise you are likely to hurt someone and that karma will bite you in the butt. Many people have very strong feelings about adultery and it is not fair to drag someone into that scenario without their permission. Personally I will not even date someone who I know has a girlfriend. I like me a lot and really do not like to share a man. I believe the only thing you know for sure you are getting if you sleep with someone else's spouse is a cheat. Yes, I do know I am very judgmental on this subject.

Admit it if you drink frequently, smoke cigarettes or do drugs.

People figure that kind of thing out pretty quickly and if you do those things you probably want to be with someone else who does. I do know people who only smoke when they drink or if they are out on the town. Generally the only person who wants to kiss a frequent smoker is another smoker. So if you are thinking about quitting go for but until you do fess up.

Talk about the things you enjoy.

Passionate about caterpillars? Put it in there. You would be surprised at how many people find bugs super interesting. My sister does and she is delightfully weird. Do you love to play golf? Rescue seals? Water ski? Go to Star Trek conventions? Doesn't matter what it is if it is something that you truly care about. People who are passionate about things are attractive. However be sure not to say you love to do things that you don't. Otherwise you may end up kayaking down a class five river really wishing you had learned to swim.

Why was my picture removed?

At astrologydating.com we are committed to keeping thing clean. We reserve the right to remove any photos or profiles we deem inappropriate.

How do I order a another kind of chart?

Please visit our store and choose from the many options we have available.

What signs am I compatible with?

A lot of science goes into calculating the right matches for your particular sign. We have an in depth matching system that bases your match on everything from your sun sign,rising sign and planetary positions to your current zip code but if you are looking for a simple system based on your sun sign here you go. Please recognize that depending on how your planets are aspected you may find that others will suit your fancy as well!

  • Aries is often compatible with Gemini, Leo, Sagittarius, Aquarius and their opposite Libra
  • Taurus if often compatible with Cancer, Pisces, Capricorn, Virgo and their opposite Scorpio
  • Gemini is often compatible with Aries,Leo ,Libra, Aquarius and their opposite Sagittarius
  • Cancer is often compatible with Scorpio, Taurus, Virgo, Pisces and their opposite Capricorn
  • Leo is often compatible with Aries, Gemini, Libra, Sagittarius and their opposite Aquarius
  • Virgo is often compatible with Taurus , Cancer, Scorpio, Capricorn and their opposite Pisces
  • Libra is often compatible with Gemini, Leo, Sagittarius, Aquarius and their opposite Aries
  • Scorpio is often compatible with  Cancer, Virgo, Capricorn, Pisces and their opposite Taurus
  • Sagittarius is often compatible with Leo, Aquarius, Aries and their opposite Gemini
  • Capricorn is often compatible with Taurus, Virgo, Scorpio Pisces and their opposite Cancer
  • Aquarius is often compatible with Aries, Libra, Gemini, Sagittarius and their opposite Leo
  • Pisces is often compatible with Taurus, Cancer, Scorpio, Capricorn and their opposite Virgo

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